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When They Throw The Term Toxic Masculinity About, Remember "women are more likely to be verbally aggressive toward their partners than men, any effort to address this issue is dismissed as sexist. ".

Imnotmrabut

January 28, 2019
639 upvotes
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https://ncfm.org/2018/11/news/discrimination-news/discrimination-against-men-news/ncfm-member-tim-patten-aggressive-females-and-masculinity/
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Title When They Throw The Term Toxic Masculinity About, Remember "women are more likely to be verbally aggressive toward their partners than men, any effort to address this issue is dismissed as sexist. ".
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Imnotmrabut

Upvotes 639
Comments 13
Date January 28, 2019 8:41 PM UTC
(7 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/MensRights
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/akrsbx/when_they_throw_the_term_toxic_masculinity_about/
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/MensRights/when-they-throw-the-term-toxic-masculinity-about.885022
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[–]Dutchtroll5 68 points69 points70 points 7 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

"My ex-girlfriend had a really weird fetish, where she used to dress up like herself and act like a fucking bitch all the time." - Bo Burnham

[–]Imnotmrabut[S] 14 points15 points16 points 7 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

It never gets old no matter how often you hear it!

[–]Dutchtroll5 7 points8 points9 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I do like to repeat stuff.

[–]Imnotmrabut[S] 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I've noticed, but it helps to have a reputable source for the quote - so try this one https://www.theguardian.com/culture/2010/aug/13/bo-burnham-youtube-edinburgh-fringe

[–]rationalthought314 6 points7 points8 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

"Women understand women and they hate each other" - Al Bundy

[–]chambertlo 20 points21 points22 points 7 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

Lesbians have the highest rate of divorce amongst all types of couples. Women are even horrible to each other.

[–]rationalthought314 10 points11 points12 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

and the highest domestic violence rates both physical and emotional

[–]Elfere 13 points14 points15 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

It's because they know they they aren't physically dominated.

On a side note. I almost never hear about a man with holding or using sex as a tool to get what he wants. Yet that exact scenario falls within abuse lines.

[–]Imnotmrabut[S] 8 points9 points10 points 7 years ago* (2 children) | Copy Link

Women more likely than men to initiate divorces, but not non-marital breakups
It is a well-established fact that most divorces in the US are wanted primarily by the wife. In Goode’s (1956) sample of recently divorced women from the 1940s in Detroit, about two thirds of the recently divorced women described themselves as the initiators of their divorces. More recent US data show a similar pattern, with roughly two thirds of divorces wanted by the wife (Brinig & Allen, 2000; England & Kilbourne, 1990; Pettit & Bloom, 1984; Sayer, England, Allison, & Kangas, 2011; Sweeney, 2002). Most divorces are wanted by the wife not only in the US, but in Europe (Charvoz, Bodenmann, Bertoni, Iafrate, & Giuliana, 2009; Kalmijn & Poortman, 2006) and Australia (Hewitt, 2009; Hewitt, Western, & Baxter, 2006) as well.
The fact that wives have been more likely to want divorce implies that wives were less satisfied with their marriages than their husbands, at least among couples who divorced. Gender inequality in who wants to break up is one way to measure gender differences in satisfaction within romantic relationships. Do nonmarital relationships experience breakup in a gendered way similar to marriages? The prior literature on the gender of breakup has explored breakup in heterosexual marriage exclusively. In this paper, I use a new longitudinal study of relationships and breakups in the US. I compare the data on who wanted the breakup for married couples, nonmarital cohabiting couples, and couples who are not married and who have not cohabited. I examine the gender of breakup for both marital and nonmarital relationships with quantitative data for the first time.
Who wants the Breakup? Gender and Breakup in Heterosexual Couples, © Michael J. Rosenfeld, 2017, Draft Paper - February, 2017
Women are the more aggressive sex
CDC Study: More Men than Women Victims of Partner Abuse - National Study: More Men than Women Victims of Intimate Partner Physical Violence, Psychological Aggression, Over 40% of victims of severe physical violence are men
Hoff, B. H. (2012), National Study: More Men than Women Victims of Intimate Partner Physical Violence, Psychological Aggression. Over 40% of victims of severe physical violence are men. MenWeb on-line Journal (ISSN: 1095-5240 http://www.batteredmen.com/NISVS.htm)
REFERENCES EXAMINING ASSAULTS BY WOMEN ON THEIR SPOUSES OR MALE PARTNERS
Martin S. Fiebert, Annotated Bibliography, Department of Psychology, California State University, Long Beach, 2012
PARTNER VIOLENCE - Violence by Women against Male Partners
University Of Newhampshire Studies List

[–]pandalovexxx 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

That first link doesnt seem to be working, might just be me though.

[–]Imnotmrabut[S] 2 points3 points4 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Thanks for that - I've repaired the link and here is the functional source https://web.stanford.edu/~mrosenfe/Rosenfeld_gender_of_breakup.pdf

[–]Roguta 6 points7 points8 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Not just verbally.

In non-reciprocal instances of domestic violence (which make about 50% of all cases), women are the perpetrators in more than 70% of the cases. Or at least in 2007 they were.

These are arguably old results by now, but based on how things are going so far, I think it's reasonable to believe these numbers have gone up, not down.

[–]djc_tech 3 points4 points5 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

This is true. My ex wife told me she cant wait to fuck someone and rub it in my face. I was like why? What purpose does it serve? I don't get it. My brain couldn't find logic in it.

I know during our separation period I wouldn't ever do something like that. It wouldn't be her business let alone if I did rub it in like that. She said other things too, so yes I believe they're more verbally abusive. She said things to be that would a drill sergeant cringe.

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