Went on a date with a girl, 3 months ago, ended with us kissing, then later she said she wanted to just be friends, which I declined said I wasn't looking for friendship. Have not texted since then. She has texted me asking to hang out with her and girl friends to which I have I have declined saying not looking for friendship and said if we hung out, it would be just the two of us.
I usually see her a restaurant I frequent, which she says hi and I say it back. She tried to have a conversation about hanging out as friends, which I decline saying not looking for friendship and kept it short. She tried this 3x. I have been seeing this one other girl in the meanwhile.
My mistake with her was that I was too available would reply to her text within the hour. Send her good morning text and spend 30 mins on the phone with her. I realized those mistakes and learned from them.
She sent me this morning on whats app: "Sand141 :), we're going to be friends weather you like it or not". I have a feeling she's trying to get me to be her beta orbiter, which is not going to happen.
I'm thinking of just not replying or replying this : "If thinking we're friends is what floats your boat, then by all means go ahead, who am I to stop you...my answer is still the same, not looking for friendship"
too long? or just don't reply at all?
Or reply this: "You already know my answer"
Any insightful would be helpful, thanks for reading.
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