How do I deal with bullies and verbal abuse?

HiiiiiiPower · 2017-07-10T02:00:31+00:00

You have to be careful with this if you still live with your parents. How old are you? Also, check the raisedbynarcissists sub. They deal with this often.

gg_s · 2017-07-10T02:01:47+00:00

If you don't have the wit to amplify, just agree.

Shrug like oh well and say, "Yep, that's me."

Then go fuck his girl.

Docbear64 · 2017-07-10T02:02:46+00:00

So This is bad advice and the repercussions aren't worth it even though I think it's a valid solution . Sometimes you just need to punch an asshole in the mouth to let him know you're not his bitch and you won't tolerate his being an asshole to you .

It's good that you've been lifting , have you considered taking a martial art? More for confidence boosting purposes than actually needing to use it , knowing you could defend yourself if the time rises may help . Amused mastery is a good play but some dudes just want to be dicks so it's best just to not give them the fucking time of day .

You'll be heading to university soon which is great hopefully there's some distance to it and you can craft your presentation to the world a bit bette.r People won't know you and that will allow you to carry yourself more confidently and craft a persona that you're proud of and people flock to .

I do quite simply wish you could punch the assholes who are bugging you in the mouth though . but the consequences of doing so are typically not worth it especially when your life is just about to get started . Don't derail the train for some petty revenge.

FuckboyAWALT · 2017-07-10T07:11:46+00:00

A&A is good to a certain degree.

If it's total bullshit I wouldn't even waste my time and energy to reply = ignore.

Lift so they can't pick on you physically. Once they get no reaction of you anymore it's boring to pick on you because nothing happens and they will look for another victim.

I'd rather be a person that's hated on, than a person that does the hating.

1z1z2x2x3c3c4v4v · 2017-07-10T10:52:02+00:00

whenever it's someone that says something that is extremely disrespectful and plain mean, I have no clue whatsoever on how to respond.

Like you, I had a narciss mom. That said, when ever someone pushed me over the edge, I would call them out, and then tell them to "Shut the Fuck Up".

[deleted] · 2017-07-11T04:08:29+00:00

Are you sure other non parent people are actually bullying you or just giving you regular guy shit?

I mean a standard interaction with one of my friends has us calling each other fags at least like 5 times without ten mins.

[deleted] · 2017-07-11T04:08:45+00:00

Are you sure other non parent people are actually bullying you or just giving you regular guy shit?

I mean a standard interaction with one of my friends has us calling each other fags at least like 5 times within ten mins.

HiiiiiiPower · 2017-07-11T04:10:15+00:00

I still feel like 90 percent of the time it's just regular guy shit and not truly bullying.

Honestly when guys think you are pathetic they don't say anything to you because saying regular guy shit to you will probably hurt your feelings or some weirdness and be awkward all around.

cirrusice · 2017-07-10T10:41:57+00:00

You fuck their shit up. That's the only real way.

Title	How do I deal with bullies and verbal abuse?
Author	HiiiiiiPower
Upvotes	7
Comments	18
Date	July 10, 2017 12:58 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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