Quick question.

Whats the money dynamic in your RP LTRs. Like i usually don't mind paying for both of us, coz i make more money. She contributes sometimes as well when we do social things.

I want to start commanding finances soon. Something like I tell her when to pay if she hasnt offered in a long time. Eg, "so where are you taking me out for dinner tonight?" "Movies are on you tonight". It will be rare; i will still be paying 80% of the time.

I've seen she used to pay for me all the time but now she's comfortable (10 months in) and its slowed down.

Is there a better way? We all know open communication is bull shit. I need some "woman talk" ways to convey thats its not ok for me to pay all the time.

What do you think?