Someone who has less money than me is having sex right now.

Someone who is uglier than me is having sex right now.

Someone who is dumber than me is having sex right now.

Someone who is weirder than me is having sex right now.

You get the point.

All this self-improvement and trying to be the best version of yourself is one thing. Not saying that it is not worth it or not important or valuable. It just makes me wonder and think about what is the minimum requirement. Clearly you can be fat and still fuck a hot girl. You can be poor. You can be dumb. What's up with that?

As someone who has zero experience with girls this is very confusing to me. Someone says; "get a good body, girls love it" and then I see an ugly fat guy with a hot girl. Someone says; "get status, girls love it", and I see a homeless dude with a hot girl. Every time someone names one of these things, I could point at the opposite situation working out.

What's the threshold? The minimum requirement?