I participated on a blog discussing how to recognise a psychopathic partner. Several dozen women shared stories of their apparently clinically psychopathic/sociopathic/narcissistic, ex boyfriends . My friend called out the double standard and was labeled misogynist. I suggested that maybe they (the ex) were just stage 5 clingers or Nice Guys (tm), and I was told "you're not welcome here, I've seen you on too many threads, gtfo . I was also accused of being said sociopath/narccisist/psychopath myself, for invalidating their experience of red flags (mostly stuff like."he cried to me on the phone that he'd brought me flowers", fwiw. Some I sympathised with.)

Perhaps I did dismiss, but only because the blog has a habit of labeling everyone a secret narcissist.Said blog has a history of tolerating.and encouraging misandry too. A few, mostly older women call it out; the younger ones my age just say what they like about men.

I'm scared to respond in case she reports me for hate speech. Which she will win.