I recently matched with a girl on tinder and we chatted. I commented that I wondered what she looked like as a red head, because I saw that she was a brunette (dark brown) and a blonde in her photos. She asked if I wanted to know something CRAZY (she wrote this in caps lols). I said yes I do. She told me she was in fact a red head. I said stop lying. She said she died her hair to those other colours. I asked her if she was ashamed of who she was. She hasn't replied since. What gives? Am I too harsh? Or is she just a being a bit insecure?

On another note: what should your approach be to girls who are insecure? I know that the crazy bi-polar and schizoid types should be avoided like the plague, but what about the shy types?

Also, if you have an approach in mind that gives you results for any particular type of girl, please feel free to share it!