I got together with a girl recently and I find myself thinking a lot about her, but in a happy way. I find myself just spontaneously smiling.

I know TRP says you should have abundance mentality and not focus on one girl. But Sometimes I feel life is so bland and I think I should enjoy this wave of happiness and let myself feel whatever comes.

Or should I exert more self control on my emotions and try to keep my emotional state, even though it's a happy one, in rational control?