~ archived since 2018 ~

Does this prove the bluepill?

March 7, 2023
5 upvotes

I knew a girl who was very attractive, easily 8-10 in looks. She ended up marrying an older guy who was balding and significantly shorter than her. The guy was probably a 5 at best. This girl was virgin until she was 28 and this 5/10 dude was her first.

TheRedArchive is an archive of Red Pill content, including various subreddits and blogs. This post has been archived from the subreddit /r/AllPillDebate.

/r/AllPillDebate archive

Download the post

Want to save the post for offline use on your device? Choose one of the download options below:

Post Information
Title Does this prove the bluepill?
Author Romeo_RichBoy
Upvotes 5
Comments 27
Date March 7, 2023 10:50 AM UTC (3 weeks ago)
Subreddit /r/AllPillDebate
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/AllPillDebate/does-this-prove-the-bluepill.1154171
https://theredarchive.com/post/1154171
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/AllPillDebate/comments/11kw12f/does_this_prove_the_bluepill/
Red Pill terms in post
Comments

[–]Constant_Ad6906 9 points10 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

This sounds like redpill fantasy.

[–]Opening_Pattern_301GloriousPill 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

Redpill would call him a betabuxx

[–]Constant_Ad6906 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Redpill men want traditionalist housewife virgin thats a fantasy they want to be a beta bucks.

[–]honestjoin 1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

was he a rich betabux

and what year did this happen in

[–]Romeo_RichBoy 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

Idk but I doubt it, this happened in 2020.

[–]honestjoin 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

well it can happen, but 28 year old virgin is pretty rare, probably rarer than oofy doofy.

[–]Opening_Pattern_301GloriousPill 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Country? Culture surrounding it? Monetary incentive? Arranged marriage?

[–]Romeo_RichBoy 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Girl is Pakistani guy was Arab. Not arranged marriage. Can't say about money but it doesn't seem like the guy was rich. He wasn't a total loser either though.

[–]FortniteAbobusWhitePill 1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Was he indian janitor?

[–]BitsAndBobs304[🍰] 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

a *bald* short indian janitor

[–]FortniteAbobusWhitePill 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Yeah, OP mentioned that he's balding.

[–]KirthWGersen 4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

No.

It just goes to show that individuals are individuals.

[–]facingitall 2 points3 points  (9 children) | Copy Link

How someone looks doesn't give you all the data. There's tons of dynamics at play in any relationship which involve an exchange of both visible or less visible value to an outsider.

You also need to consider someone's self-esteem, skills, wants etc.

[–]crypto_druid 0 points1 point  (8 children) | Copy Link

You're talking to incels and expecting them to consider that attraction doesn't start and end with looks.

Good Luck

[–]facingitall 1 point2 points  (7 children) | Copy Link

That may be the trend but it's a stereotype at the end of the day. I wouldn't dare approach someone with the mindset that they fit into a stereotype right off the bat.

It's unfair to treat an individual as the caricature of their type. I'm sure there will be individuals who resonate with what I've written. Just like there may be those who do fit the stereotype.

[–]crypto_druid 0 points1 point  (6 children) | Copy Link

the vast majority fit the stereotype.

the whole community is based around the philosophy that attraction has no other influence outside looks and everything else is a conspiracy

[–]facingitall 0 points1 point  (5 children) | Copy Link

I've seen their posts. Their community-speech is definitely eccentric and comedic, although unnecessary. The depravity is also there and the toxicity is on a whole other level.

But we're on reddit. The ones you find here are more likely to be tame imo. There's also many who see the impact of other aspects like "social status" and "money".

Older ones are also MUCH more likely to be open to the idea that being NT is the ultimate factor at the end of the day. Because they live in that reality every day.

[–]crypto_druid 0 points1 point  (4 children) | Copy Link

I hope they can all find their way. It’s tragic that incel phenomena is even a thing.

[–]facingitall 0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy Link

I agree with you. At the end of the day, it's just a part of life. Some people will miss out on certain opportunities and experiences regardless of what they try.

There are definitely winners and losers in life. Most people can live a decent life but there will definitely be some people weeded out. Whether that's because of mental illness, extreme ugliness and lack of willpower, and very traumatizing past experiences.

And I don't just mean this for dating. I mean this for living a decent life in general. Many don't have jobs and have no desire to change anything because they genuinely feel they have no control.

[–]crypto_druid 0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy Link

Some people will miss out on certain opportunities and experiences regardless of what they try.

Everybody will experience falling short of the grade in life. But I don't know anyone who has worked hard and put their all into something and not got something out of it

[–]facingitall 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

But I don't know anyone who has worked hard and put their all into something and not got something out of it

Something isn't always a good thing.

I can recall spending years working on my social skills and social life, experimented with psychedelics to improve, and literally dedicating years of my life with serious work ethic to change.

I may have gained "knowledge" out of it but the cost was a period of extreme embarrassment, humiliation, and further reinforced insecurity. My current social life is also practically non-existent despite those efforts.

[–]crypto_druid 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Yes, the cost of improvement is pain and struggle, that applies to all men, not just you.

Fair play to you for getting this far. Good news is you’ve got this far, bad news is you have more pain to come, because that is life.

i wish I could fluff it up for you and tell you life can be all sunshine and rainbows and the best things will come to you for little to no effort, it doesn’t make me feel good to say the truth, im just real, life is hard work and the more we avoid the hard work, the lower the quality of life will be.

[–]Romeo_RichBoy 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Nah Arab engineer

[–]hazelinsideNeutralPill 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

Doesn’t prove or disprove anything decisively. It shows people are individualistic and there are outliers that don’t follow trends

[–]crypto_druid -1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

“Doesnt follow trends”

So he isn't a sheep and can think for himself and follow his own trends.

I think we have discovered a way outside of looks that can make people appealing

[–]SoldierExcelsior 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

She could have just been socially awkward autistic who knows but I doubt she was normal any way theres always going to be one offs ..I know plenty of attractive women with meh guy these women tend to be wierd or irritating.

[–]no_bling_just_dingself-aware MSTOW // your genetics = your fate 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

some people are outliers. it's much more common to find a woman that age who has had twice as many sexual partners as years alive.

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

© TheRedArchive 2023. All rights reserved.
created by /u/dream-hunter