I'd like to preface this by saying I'm not against gay people or anything like that. But I just think it's weird how everyone thinks that homosexuality or bisexuality is never a choice, just something people are born with.

I do believe that certainly can be the case, but definitely not 100% of the time and I'll explain why I think that.

During my nearly 40 sum odd years on this planet, I've met a lot of people and some were gay. I've talked to them about how they feel about thier sexuality before and I've straight up had some of them say they were homosexual by choice. Both gay dudes and lesbians.

The gay men I've talked to who say they were homosexual by choice, explained almost universally that they were gay simply because women are too hard to get, and they find men easier to deal with. They are sexually attracted to women through and through, but are simply willing to have sex with men just to satisfy that itch, because they aren't having any luck with women.

The lesbian women I've talked to who say they are homosexual by choice, is for similar reasons. They told me although they are sexually attracted to men, they don't find enough of them to be sexually attractive enough to be worth going after. So they'd rather be lesbians than date men who are beneath thier standards. (Please take this with a grain of salt, as this is the only lesbian couple I've spoken to about this.)

One last example I'll leave you with is the prevalence of homosexuality in prison populations. How even perfectly straight men who never had a homosexual thought in thier lives, are willing to have sex with other men while serving lengthy prison sentences. Some of them with wives and families on the outside are still willing to have sex or even be in a relationship with men just to satisfy thier sexual urges. Hence why sayings like "Gay for the stay" are common.

The same goes for women's prisons.

That's why I've come to the conclusion that homosexuality and bisexuality are sometimes a choice. And not by a small margin either, I'd be willing to bet around 30% of homosexual/bisexual people are that way by choice. Maybe even more.