a lot of guys redpill and blackpill think women have very low empathy for males but this is in fact cope. not because the average woman actually loves most men (they can love a very specific small cross section of men or one man or their sons), but i'm referring to something else i'll explain in a moment.

women empathize greatly with women of course, and male animals (cats and dogs especially), male fictional characters, male k-pop stars, male toddlers(some of the time) and sometimes their sons (although it ends there). far-left ones even empathize with illegal male immigrants probably precisely because they don't view them as people (and therefore, not as men) and might have very little exposure to them.

it's only when discussing real and ordinary men that their empathy train runs out of steam, even more so when discussing large scale statistics. then they revert to their stock reaction to men's problems of "take it up with other men" when issues are brought up to them or they start to claim they're the real most affected ones. i guess there's some fatigue to it as well if they are exposed too often to the same information and they realize there's not much they can do.

so get out of your male solipsism and realize that plenty of guys get loved very much by the women that give you the cold shoulder. i don't say for a second that it's your fault, but i want you to realize that your experience might in fact be much less common than you think. they love each other and befriend each other. they love their fantasy men in their novels, their movies, their tv shows and their animes who don't exist in reality. they love their sons who carry half their genes. they love their high status good looking celebrities like johnny depp.

women are actually very good at empathizing with one another and with these groups i mentioned, much more than men empathize with men as you can probably remember many instances of another man calling you a loser and flexing on you how much he's better than you for your problems (which is something that women generally approve of. in fact, they'd probably be turned off by a man who's so empathetic to other men that he can criticize women's behavior.) of course, take this with a grain of salt as it's not rare to see women gaslighting and abusing their sons, more than men do.