One thing i noticed is how both men and women complain about tinder in the various "both genders have it hard" discussions. Guys have to act like it's the app itself is at fault. The algorithms bury their profiles, the focus on photos doesn't allow to showcase their charming personalities, the app is flooded with bots and scammers. And don't forget the dreaded gender ratios. It's everything except for women finding them unnatractive

At the same time women complain only about the matches they get. Men don't put in the effort into their profiles. Men don't put in effort into their messages. Men shoot outside of their league. Men only want sex. Men don't take care of themselves and have nothing to offer. Men don't read their creative bios. Men send them gross messages and those dreaded dick pics (who cares that you can't send photos on tinder). So many options but almost all of them trash