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What is more brutal when failed

Petrosmine

October 23, 2023
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Title What is more brutal when failed
Author

Petrosmine

Upvotes 5
Comments 46
Date October 23, 2023 6:49 AM UTC
(2 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/AllPillDebate
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/AllPillDebate/comments/17ee7rg/what_is_more_brutal_when_failed/
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/AllPillDebate/what-is-more-brutal-when-failed.1236083
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[–]SmoothForest 13 points14 points15 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

PUA is insanely brutal. Studies show that rejection activates the same part of the brain as physical pain. Now imagine how I've felt after getting tricked by pickup-artists into going clubbing once to twice a week for over a year, asking out a minimum of 20 women each night out? Each rejection caused me physical pain and chipped away at my self-esteem to now where there is nothing left. I was tricked into thinking each rejection made me stronger, and I'd eventually get used to it. I learned the hard way that they were wrong. Chad has high self esteem because he's never had to approach, let alone risk rejection or getting rejected.

[–]Hubris1998She will say no. Because of the implication. 11 points12 points13 points 2 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link

How do you even get hard for a whale? Lmfao

Funniest part is when the guy helps her get in shape just to instantly lose her to a random Chadlite as soon as she starts looking decent

[–]IronHorseTitan 5 points6 points7 points 2 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

I can tell you how, I've been with a few fatties here and there, just fat not mega fat, some of them have really nice tits, give pretty decent bjs, and most important of all, they seem happy to be with you and actually desire you

[–]Hubris1998She will say no. Because of the implication. 3 points4 points5 points 2 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

Yeah but they're fat still

[–]Weekly_Signal6481 0 points1 point2 points 2 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

and ?

[–]Hubris1998She will say no. Because of the implication. 0 points1 point2 points 2 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Yikes

[–]Weekly_Signal6481 0 points1 point2 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

okay ?

[–]IronHorseTitan 0 points1 point2 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

would I like to fuck only models all the time? uhhh.... no shit sherlock, in this life you dont get what you want, you get what you can

[–]bruhminer 0 points1 point2 points 2 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

How do you even get hard for a whale

Agreed, I would literally not be able to get hard with a woman that I do not find attractive, it's still wild to me how all these dudes are slamming obese and busted looking girls, no clue how they're doing it.

[–]Hubris1998She will say no. Because of the implication. 1 point2 points3 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

They're degenerates

[–]Weekly_Signal6481 -1 points0 points1 point 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

because they're attracted to women you're not ? Maybe they have different taste ?

[–]SlutforDirtyFeet 5 points6 points7 points 2 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

Surgerymaxxing no doubt .Have you ever seen results of what failed surgery looks like?

[–]Petrosmine17 1 point2 points3 points 2 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

Nope, but probably because they dont post pictures or rope

[–]SlutforDirtyFeet 2 points3 points4 points 2 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

https://mexicocosmeticcenter.com/top-10-failed-celebrity-plastic-surgeries/

Failed plastic surgery for celebs

[–]Petrosmine17 8 points9 points10 points 2 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Lovely when genetically superior people get fucked for life

[–]SlutforDirtyFeet 2 points3 points4 points 2 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Most of the times they don't even need any

[–]ReyLo99reborn 2 points3 points4 points 2 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

It was unfortunate for them to go overboard and ruin their looks. They obviously didn't need them!

[–]Cyrrow 0 points1 point2 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

To be fair this is probably the result of age+ plastic.

[–]kiira_cafe 3 points4 points5 points 2 years ago (17 children) | Copy Link

what is landwhale ascension, it sounds really funny

[–]its-probly-over 8 points9 points10 points 2 years ago (15 children) | Copy Link

Fucking overweight women, essentially dumpster diving for the least desirable woman. Honestly i don't understand how these guys even get hard for a woman like that, just sounds like torture.

[–]kiira_cafe 2 points3 points4 points 2 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

i get it.. I mean I don't get it in a sense, I don't personally get sex for the sake of sex? like, why fuck people if you're not attracted to them? is sex without love pleasurable for those guys at all? i would rather be celibate than have meaningless sex..

i know I will probably be called horrible names now, but I'm just genuinely curious :')

[–]SlutforDirtyFeet 2 points3 points4 points 2 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

They want to boast about getting laid through tinder and about their n count . "Doesn't matter had sex " is their motto

[–]kiira_cafe 1 point2 points3 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

sex for the sake of having sex... I mean, I don't see it as a fulfilling life. I'd rather lie (as a man) abt having a higher body count than just deceiving a woman (in the sense of: having sex = I'm attracted to you, that's a logical conclusion). it can either tank her confidence, or raise it higher, leading her to realize the actual reality which is going to again lead to tanking it.. maybe I'm looking into it a bit too much, but meaningless sex (no love, just need/just lust) ends up creating a situation where both parties are less satisfied then just not fucking.

I don't know man, I get the need for intimacy, I need it to..... but not to the point of hooking up for the sake of saying I did it..

[–]Weekly_Signal6481 0 points1 point2 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Sex without love is extremely fun and can be amazing but sex without desire is pretty empty

[–]SlutforDirtyFeet 1 point2 points3 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Exactly .Willing to fuck even 60 70 yr old granny also .But but I am horny and lonely is not always a good excuse for choices like these .But I think whiteknights and normies are more likely to go for it then any of the guys here

[–]SmoothForest 1 point2 points3 points 2 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

I did it before, got with an obese woman. The answer is you get drunk, close your eyes, and imagine she's someone else.

[–]its-probly-over 1 point2 points3 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Why would you do that to yourself bro?

I'd rather just get a high end escort thats mega hot instead, if its just about the sex and nothing more

[–]SlutforDirtyFeet 0 points1 point2 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Yeah your experiences matches with those of my buddies

[–]ReyLo99reborn 2 points3 points4 points 2 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

They could be chubby chasers! I'm not sure why they would want to be with these women because deep down inside they could do better.

[–]SlutforDirtyFeet 6 points7 points8 points 2 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

Bro I legit have friends who sleep with actually overweight women .Their reason - it's pussy .It's a W to them .And we definitely have guys who are willing to sleep with 60 70 yr old granny also.There's a point till I have sympathy for these guys .After that it turns into disgust

[–]its-probly-over 3 points4 points5 points 2 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

I feel like some people have no choice, imagine a 5'5 ugly and out of shape guy? He wont get far unless he embraces the fact that he will need to find someone on a similar level purely because both of them don't want to die alone, so they get together. kinda brutal.

[–]SlutforDirtyFeet 1 point2 points3 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

It's mostly avg guys and whiteknights doing this specially on tinder and other dating apps

[–]ReyLo99reborn 1 point2 points3 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Yeah, it's unfortunate if he's really ugly because he would have no choice but to date his looksmatch assuming he does get into a relationship.

[–]Weekly_Signal6481 0 points1 point2 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

A lot of overweight women are very extremely desirable

[–]Hillwalker71WhitePill 2 points3 points4 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

This should be the official name for the rescue operation to lift a beached whale back into the ocean.

[–]ReyLo99reborn 2 points3 points4 points 2 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

Surgerymaxxing, for sure! The way I see it, it could go wrong in one of two ways: having a shitty surgeon, or the person going overboard to the point of ruining the face.

[–]SlutforDirtyFeet 2 points3 points4 points 2 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Bad surgery can make a good looking person look bad.Imagine what it could do to someone who already isn't good looking

[–]ReyLo99reborn 1 point2 points3 points 2 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

It would be hella brutal for a person that's below average looking. Imagine them starting at a 4/10 and they get surgery in an attempt to be better looking and it goes wrong. That could perhaps result in them dropping down a point or two.

[–]SlutforDirtyFeet 1 point2 points3 points 2 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

To the point that they can't even look at mirror Surgery ain't joke and to me it's not worth it with the risks it comes with .Because a good one doesn't guarantee your success in dating but a bad one? It finishes even the little 5-6% chance u had

[–]ReyLo99reborn 2 points3 points4 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I mean, in my case it's not limited to just improving my chances in dating. I just want to have a good life, like hang out with friends and what not. Maybe be better respected as well though I don't think anyone's ever disrespected me at any point in my life. I think for me it's mostly been neutral treatment, with some positive here and there. And I've brought this up a few times, but where I live we don't judge that harshly on one's looks, height, and hair (or lack thereof).

[–]DurtyDanky 0 points1 point2 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

All of them

[–]Dragonballer728 0 points1 point2 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

The heck is gaypill and how does it fail

[–]bruhminer 0 points1 point2 points 2 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

No idea but probably surgeries are not what they're cracked up to be.

[–]ReyLo99reborn 0 points1 point2 points 2 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

One would have to find really good surgeons to fix whatever facial flaws they have.

[–]bruhminer 1 point2 points3 points 2 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I think small things like fixing a big nose and whatnot can be fixed with surgeries but a lot of other things not, some guys just have a really unfortunate bone structure.

[–]ReyLo99reborn 0 points1 point2 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Some guys are truly unfortunate! I had one guy in a different subreddit tell that me that even with plastic surgery it didn't help him out. His face is badly deformed, like he said he was a 2/10 before surgery and still a 2/10 after. He has had it rough since his childhood. I can't imagine myself being in his shoes if I was to be reborn.

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