Im speechless

dw87190 · 2022-11-26T21:04:49+00:00

"I'm treating a man like a human being instead of psychologically tormenting him to the point of him committing suicide, help"

LordranKing · 2022-11-26T21:08:35+00:00

filled with hatred and contempt for men

gets into relationship with her enemy

finds out maybe the average male isn’t as evil as advertised

enjoys her man and is falling into her femininity

It just writes itself. You can’t make this shit up. I used to think this situation was just things you hear online. But I’ve met too many young women, especially when I was in undergrad and grad school, with such a messed up view of men. Older men teach young men to not repeat their mistakes. Feminists teach young women to double down on their mistakes

ArdinOkira · 2022-11-26T21:44:00+00:00

This feels rather like someone having been in a cult and then starting to realize something about everything they believed is different from what they were told. I feel bad for them because it’s obviously hurting their relationship and her mental state as she’s so conflicted about it.

parahacker · 2022-11-26T21:24:04+00:00

Thanks for the daily reminder that feminism is a hate group.

It breeds hate, marinates in hate, distorts reality to justify its hate.

We get to put feminist thought leaders on a watch list besides KKK leaders and islamic terrorist supporters, when?

Aimless-Nomad · 2022-11-27T02:33:51+00:00

What relationships are according to feminists:

When a woman reaches orgasm with a man she is only collaborating with the patriarchal system, eroticizing her own oppression.

-Sheila Jeffrys

Politically, I call it rape whenever a woman has sex and feels violated.

-Catherine MacKinnon

The institution of sexual intercourse is anti-feminist.

-Ti-Grace Atkinson

Rape is nothing more or less than a conscious process of intimidation by which all men keep all women in a state of fear.

-Susan Brownmiller, Against Our Will p.6

Since marriage constitutes slavery for women, it is clear that the women’s movement must concentrate on attacking this institution. Freedom for women cannot be won without the abolition of marriage.

-Sheila Cronin, the leader of the feminist organization NOW

Marriage as an institution developed from rape as a practice.

-Andrea Dworkin

PactScharp · 2022-11-26T22:14:35+00:00

Feminist women truly resent their own biology... not only do they have extreme penis envy, but they shutter at the thought of doing anything remotely traditionally "feminine" (even if it wasn't motivated by enforced gender roles in the first place).

I'm a man & I'm an engineer, which is a male dominated field. NOT ONCE have I thought to be an engineer "because that's a man's job". I did it because I was good at & interested in math/science & STEM seemed like the obvious choice at higher education. The fact that STEM is male dominated or had traditionally been seen as a "masculine" field is irrelevant to me.

God forbid a woman actually cook something for their parnter, OH THE HORROR!!! Jesus fucking Christ. I don't feel "oppressed" if the women in my life ask me to help out with physical work. These people seriously need to get over themselves.

And they say that their ideology is a force for good... absolute insanity. I genuinely hope this guy has enough self-respect to leave this toxic girl & aim for someone better & less deranged.

IceCorrect · 2022-11-26T22:20:46+00:00

So she wont do the same for her girlfriend?

deeronmylawn · 2022-11-26T21:23:06+00:00

Poor guy

PactScharp · 2022-11-26T22:34:55+00:00

The comments are also utterly fucking dreadful...

Some highlights (these are paraphrased):

"I understand that feminists are apprehensive about perpetuating patriarchal power structures in romantic relationships, but being with a man is okay as long as he agrees with radical feminism" (absolute PSYCHOPATH comment).

"Feminism """"gave you that choice"""", so I determine it's okay... but you should break up with your bf because you want something else".

"Only date men who are feminist"

"Question him. If he's stunned by your questions & replies with "you're overthinking this", dump him" (major projection & extreme hate/toxicity on her part)

"Patriarchy twisted the basic human need for relationships into the monogamous female submission to men" (says a stame at home mom who "married a white man" and said that like it's a bad thing, then brags about how she "exercised her choice" as a "free independent & retired woman". What a joke. How strong of you to "chooce" to live off of your husband's income. What a hero. A husband whose last name she refused to take after marriage. Not that I care about women taking over the man's name. In my country that doesn't even exist. But she is literally the EPITOME of the "traditional wife", without ANY of the "negatives").

"I'm a feminist & I'm raising two feminists with a feminist man. It's okay to have relationships as long as everyone is a feminist" (fucking CULT like extremism beyond words. It's obscene how these lunatics are so blind to their own dogma).

"He should learn to cook & you're not his mom! He shouldn't get used to that! If he develops further "patriarchal behaviors", drop him" (this one came from a self-loathing simp. I don't feel sorry for the dude, he made his own bed pandering to feminists on a man-hating sub).

"Never do wifey shit for a boyfriend"

Basically what they're saying is: it's okay to date men, but if they even slightly disagree with radical feminism, then they're sub human trash who deserve to be brutally murdered & castrated, because they're perpetuating violent patriarchal power structures that have twisted women's attraction to men into female submission & oppression. If he even falls slightly out of line or doesn't answer your deluded questions in exactly the way that feminism™ approves of, then dump him & date women.

Feminism truly is a hate cult. It's the best way to describe it. Wanting everyone you interact with to fall in line with your warped philosophy is the EPITOME of cult behavior & feminists hating men speaks for itself.

aBlackKing · 2022-11-26T22:37:04+00:00

Mental illness

ThrowAway29307845034 · 2022-11-26T22:44:27+00:00

How do I keep my hateful, sexist, horrific beliefs while still finding happiness with this man I've fallen in love with!?!? HALP MEEE!!

Holy FUCK!

EDIT: MODS AND ADMINS KNOWINGLY LIED ABOUT MY POST ON 11/28/22 IN THIS SUB TO SILENCE EFFECTIVE AND POPULAR CRITICISM OF FEMINISTS USING THE SMEAR OF THREATENING VIOLENCE.

Sandwhale123 · 2022-11-26T22:51:04+00:00

I'm sure she's a good person at heart the way she wants to treat her BF right and is just misguided by radical feminist ideology. Feminism is a plague.

Firedamp_Weaponry · 2022-11-26T23:00:54+00:00

I wouldn't worry, she either drops all the man-hating bs, admits her mistakes and lives a happy life in a happy relationship, or she doesn't, and her boyfriend drops her ass and finds a less deranged woman, and she gets to have all the lesbian sex she wants. Win-win all around.

Massacre-_-lover · 2022-11-27T03:12:27+00:00

Isn’t anyone gonna talk about how shes admittedly dating a minor ?

Training-Rich5057 · 2022-11-26T23:36:06+00:00

The dude needs to dump her and get a girl worthy of love and care. This woman is brainwashed. It is sad to see how feminism has ruined everything.

AdComprehensive6588 · 2022-11-26T23:55:16+00:00

This man is reprogramming her

2022-11-27T00:24:03+00:00

I honestly feel bad for this girl. She’s only 18… as a 35 y/o now, to me she is still a child. I remember how dumb I was at 18, and that was without the influence of social media. She’s been conditioned online and maybe through peers and her school system to hate men. What the fuck is going on in the world. Seriously.

denvercaniac · 2022-11-27T01:43:35+00:00

Even when he's good to her, the patriarchy is at fault.

Get pets, folks. They'll love you unconditionally and won't create needless drama.

Deckinabox · 2022-11-26T22:10:32+00:00

This posts reads like a joke lmfao

Aimless-Nomad · 2022-11-27T01:47:36+00:00

The comments are far more degenerate than the post

ERiC_693 · 2022-11-27T05:11:58+00:00

Pure ideology, nothing else.

TheMorningJoe · 2022-11-27T08:07:13+00:00

It’s almost as if she was indoctrinated and realized that the world wasn’t as skewed as the shit stain known as feminism told them it was

Global-Mix-1786 · 2022-11-27T16:25:46+00:00

Reality and ideology collide. Let the cognitive dissonance begin.

HereIsJenny · 2022-11-26T21:50:00+00:00

Jesus wept. Someone needs to reach out and talk some sense into her. It's not too late for her to pull her head out her butt.

I'd do it but a look at my profile may very well make her dig in deeper.

Jukingku22 · 2022-11-27T00:20:01+00:00

Oh hell nah. Im screenshotting this and putting it on my favorites album so i never lose the raw evidence of how feminism makes woman miserable

Dic_Rambone · 2022-11-27T00:37:26+00:00

That was just horrendous! When a girl gave me an inkling that she was a feminist, I walked 180 degrees the opposite direction and never looked back. We need to all learn to do that...never give them an inch.

bbs540 · 2022-11-27T00:49:15+00:00

Don’t then. Sounds like relationships with men isn’t your thing. Leave us men alone, you can bask in your mental illness with other mentally I’ll feminists

Knight_Errant25 · 2022-11-27T01:37:21+00:00

You don't. Either fully dislodge your head from your ass and embrace happiness, or stuff it up there even farther and set him free. Feminism is inherently based in self-imposed misery, and he doesn't deserve to be dragged down that road with you.

Former_Ocelot5593 · 2022-11-26T21:51:17+00:00

Feminist? Nah she means misandrist. Isn't feminism supposed to fight for equality and not be about hating? Correct me if I'm wrong

shinobigarth · 2022-11-27T06:31:22+00:00

“I’m starting to become a normal, logically thinking, non psychotic female! Quick, someone suggest something totally moronic and snap me out of it!”

2022-11-26T23:40:10+00:00

sounds like she is jsut closeted and is dealing with it poorly.

Ok_Razzmatazz_1751 · 2022-11-27T00:15:33+00:00

Lol , why is this even a issue for girls these days ? Why is it young women of today think that women only started working, cooking , liking men this particular decade is unusual when its clearly not?It's been going on for decades upon decades what the heck?!? As a woman this greatly confuses me. How do they think they came to be ? Know a good majority are from married households. Men and women unusually like each other alot .lol

LowlyLizzieBCG · 2022-11-27T02:18:01+00:00

Idiot

Starfleet_Auxiliary · 2022-11-27T03:50:38+00:00

Always find it hilarious when these people parrot the definition of feminism as "equality" when their behavior shows that to be clearly untrue.

justchats095 · 2022-11-27T07:05:22+00:00

Welcome to your existential crisis. All your fault for being an absolute fucking idiot and burying your head so far up your own ass… hopefully she’ll grow the fuck up and get some decent opinions…

maestar_1 · 2022-11-27T09:47:48+00:00

The problem is what she believed was not scientifically backed facts rather than some delusion that some human made up when she refused to take up the responsibility. Treat all humans fairly and leave people to their choice, then genetics and biology kicks in to help people live the way they want without damaging others.

Modest_Matt · 2022-11-27T11:07:10+00:00

I'm convinced feminism developed as a way of coping with the fact that for many women - a loving, fulfilling marriage and relationship may never happen.

They can comfort themselves by saying that these women have been brainwashed, aren't really happy, slaves - anything to make themselves feel better about the harsh struggle that finding someone can be.

rahsoft · 2022-11-27T12:34:11+00:00

simplest answer to this person is, don't be in a relationship...

she( and her ideology ) are not compatible with any relationship ( hetro or same sex).

the best thing she can do is live with her ideology..alone.

traveller1976 · 2022-11-27T15:53:26+00:00

This is so sad, you can clearly see a slow motion train wreck in progress. This woman will resist her natural urges for a traditional outcome, and will surrender to the vicious happiness hating nth wave feminism around her. It's absolutely crucial that men screen women for several years to ensure they don't have such hidden infections leading to conflict of interest leading to divorce court.

PoolPartyAtMyHouse · 2022-11-27T03:48:33+00:00

So this girl is 18, and confused because she likes a MAN, but it doesn't jive with her IDEOLOGIES? Reminder, 18 here.. this is EXACTLY what feminism teaches, hating men.

This post is such a clear sign (assuming it's true) feminisms is 100% anti male, so much so a young girl is confused on what to do because her expectations are the guy should be a dick, but isn't.

Onesens · 2022-11-27T09:54:21+00:00

Modern feminist women are confused. A lot of therapy needed for this generation to come to terms with themselves. Insane stuff

KatScripts · 2022-11-26T23:14:30+00:00

Finally, a sub on this stupid website where people know how to think.

2022-11-27T02:12:34+00:00

I feel bad for that dude

Edit: I took a look at that post and i feel bad for that dude even more.

GoodMoGo · 2022-11-27T04:04:05+00:00

What's so bizarre about this? Who here does not have identity conflicts at any age, let alone at 18?

Am I being nice or being a mat?
Am I being nice because I need the social approval?
Am I [insert social subgroup] because it's who I am or because it's the people I hang out with.
Etc.

I'd tell this girl keep doing what makes you happy. You'll stop doing it when it doesn't, and that is the true gauge of honesty - being able to know and accept that which makes you happy and let go of that which does not.

Jelooboi · 2022-11-27T06:02:16+00:00

Holy shit, women

Onesens · 2022-11-27T09:59:58+00:00

It's funny because I think that in a couple years, like 5 to 10 years, all this modern feminist generation will have passed the age of stupid adolescent rebelion, will have realized by then that feminist/LGBTq groups are lying misdirecting and all of their narratives are bullshit. They will realize that their stupid, unfounded, narcissistic "ideologies" are not worth pursuing at all because that's just not how it works and it's all a bunch of crap infecting women's minds and making them frustrated and unhappy. And I'm certain that when the current feminist gen will reach their 30's, being more in touch with reality, they'll be embracing patriarchy more than ever lol. It's like when you absolutely want something you don't know is bad for you and when you get it finally you just change your mind.

Another thing, how could this girl be a feminist she's like fucking 16? Why is that all these feminists are kids? They don't know shit about women's rights they don't understand anything about history and how the world works, how could they start to grasp where does feminism really come from? They diddnt even suffer from it and they already call themselves victims!? Wtf. Girls at that age are the most spoiled brats I've ever seen, both by parents and in school.They're definitely the least demographic group to be representing women's rights. What a crazy world

gafgone5 · 2022-11-27T04:04:21+00:00

Get new ideologies. Problem solved.

Mailingriver_ · 2022-11-27T13:33:54+00:00

Aha yes being straight its patriarchal

M_Salvatar · 2022-11-27T14:27:57+00:00

So, feminists are pedophiles. Okay.

tokio_333 · 2022-11-27T17:49:48+00:00

I would love to see the responses lol

Wild_Aioli · 2022-11-27T20:02:38+00:00

Too stupid to be real, too direct to be a troll.

Title	Im speechless
Author	Pr0X_JoshiGuy
Upvotes	387
Comments	94
Date	November 26, 2022 8:37 PM UTC (3 years ago)
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