I am working on 2nd separation from stbxw in a year. Separation agreement signed. She's buying me out of the house I built. 50/50, no 401k, no CS/alimony. Take with what you came with. Everything is amicable.

Looked for answers to how everything was going well, then suddenly "it's over." No problem, better for the kid (7m).

Shit fell, right in my lap. She's been emotionally involved with an ex-girlfriend of her's ex husband. Cool, you downgraded!

The point here is the book you guys recommend, NO MORE MR. NICE GUY. What a f*cking gut punch. How the hell did I end up like that.

The therapist and I go over book every week. She is god send (wife pushed me to it). Find a good therapist and let it all out there. She cuts me no slack and makes me think what I want.

The roller-coaster finally stopped. I am now getting off. Thought it would take longer, but I can get the F*ck it attitude pretty quick.

I'm working on myself and figuring out how I got to the nice guy with this woman. I have taken the blinders off and kicked the pedestal out from under her and can now see who she truly is.

Keep pushing through, find yourself, and be you. I owe it to you guys! Hell, I don't even know ya'll, but thanks.