By chance, does anyone has any specific advice for divorcing in the Netherlands? Apart from "get professional advice" which is applicable for any country.

The situation is as follows: married for 10 years, 5yo son, EUR 800k apartment with EUR 400k mortgage; both the loan and the apartment are in both our names.

Approximately EUR 200k savings, pension, stocks and options that I can execute on my accounts, approximately 30k stocks and 70k pension on hers. An aged 15yo car. Two cats. Incomes are the same, have been for the past 4 years, although I'm an employee and she is self-employed.

We are on a pretty good terms, want to co-parent after we part ways, I have no reasons to expect any foul play.