I have a somewhat weird question.

I am looking for recommendations how to convert money to fun, here's the context.

I believe my marriage is heading to a divorce. Due to an economic convenience of living together (next to kid's schoold and daycare), I don't want to file just yet.

I believe, possibly making a mistake, that staying put doesn't cost me much, becaue my wife and I earn the same, we pay mortgage, bills, groceries and every kid expense 50:50.

That said, my wife spends more than I do and that's the only accumulated-over-time loss I see I am taking. She likes clothes and buys more than she needs just for the fun of it, she prefers to do sports with a trainer which is expensive, likes a concert, a restaurant visit with a friend or a short trip.

I, on the other hand, have wonderful hobbies of videogames, sci-fi books and watching physics videos on youtube, lol. All of those are not exactly costly; I spend well below 100 per month on all of them combined.

I think it would be fair to spend about the same amount as my wife does on myself; I can't figure out a pleasant way. I find travel mostly tiresome and boring, I don't care what brand of clothes I wear. Since I stopped drinking, that spending category went away too.

I'm already spending 200 a month on therapy and 50 on language lessons, need to figure out how to spend... let's say another 300-400 EUR a month. Or dollars, they are approximately the same now.