Hello all,

I think I'm going to end up filing for chapter 13 bankruptcy today. I just finished my divorce a couple weeks ago. We lived beyond our means for a while on credit cards and I tried cutting back while we were together but she just never wanted to. Well she walked out and took nothing when we separated. The judge said since she took nothing but the clothes on her back that the total value of all property means she doesn't have to carry any debt after the divorce so I got stuck with all 40k. Luckily since the separation I was able to trim down enough to survive without any credit cards.

It's so frustrating to have the divorce finished and still feel like my financial future is in ruins. After all her cheating, drugs, alcohol, stalking, and threats I finally get the divorce finished and now this. I've known this was probably coming for a while, but now that I start the paperwork today it just feels real and serious.

Do things ever get better? Do you have tips for life after bankruptcy?