Hi, so I am very confused. My Ex isn't yelling. Is calm. Asked if still want to go through with the separation. Complete opposite of what I expect from my X. We are off together next week first time in a few weeks. Been avoiding, grey rocking, or texting her seperation things. She has been digital messaging me as well. Rarely talk since she initiated seperation.

I haven't told her been seeing an attorney or having an agreement drawn up. I am not even sure she has an attorney. We are in a mediation county.

I want to get a contract signed in case breached then can go to the court have it enforced. Also, handle the paperwork of the divorce.

With the abuse issues been tiptoeing around my X like on eggshells to avoid issues. So nervous about doing this in person not giving them the information via a text.

Any insight or advice can give?