I have to vent; I will probably erase this later. I used to handle all the extracurricular activities prior to being separated. My ex decided to take them over once we separated, and it has been a disaster since.

They stopped paying for our child's activity. Eventually, my ex agreed to split the cost but never did, so I took it over. When my child mentioned they couldn't attend the activity due to unpaid fees, I took over completely and paid for the pictures and costumes. I paid for it all again.

I should mention that my ex claimed last summer we would split summer camp, but they never paid. I didn't even ask them this year. Then, my ex messaged me today saying she lost the shoes and parts of the costume—the day before the recital. I'm just so frustrated, and now I don't even know if my child will be able to participate in the recital.