I’ve been divorced for several years. The ex recently announced she’s moving out of state. We’ve worked through an agreement amicably and just got it signed by both parties. I’m getting primary custody and CS is being zeroed out.

I’m having some unexpected emotions. I should be happy, and in many ways I am. But at the same time I feel really sad. It’s like reliving the initial stages of the divorce, feeling abandoned, left all alone with a mess to clean up.

Looking for support, advice, whatever. Thanks, men.