I matched with a woman on an app, we chatted a bit today, then talked on the phone.

She was laid back, the conversation was good, relaxed, like we already knew each other.

This will be my first date in over 27 years.

Im at a bit of a loss on talking to her over the course of the next week.

I do want to talk to her, but I don't want to call her every day, I'd prefer to talk in person, partly because she has an accent and on cells phone with a shitty connection, that can be difficult.

I also want to make sure that we can go a day or two without her "having" to talk, if that makes sense.

She also has kids who live withe her fur by the week, she said she puts them to bed by 9 and is in bed by 9:30, so it doesn't leave a lot of time to talk during the week.

I offered to text her a few times this week, tell her what I was thinking for a place to meet and see if she's good with it

She told me to go ahead and call if I want, so I take that as a good sign.

I'm planning to meet her for coffee early and have dinner reservations so if it goes well, we can do dinner, if not, I can wave off easily.

I'm going into this expecting we're going to meet and nothing more.

I'll be prepared for extracurriculars but not planning on it happening.

I don't know, I'm just not great at small talk, so any advice?