Get this!

SingleISuppose · 2019-12-31T14:32:45+00:00

In my marriage it meant "I'm in love with someone else".

zachthevideoguy · 2019-12-31T03:55:20+00:00

Sadly, it likely means she already checked out. It’s a phrase that, when said to you, hurts more than anything in the world, but I have yet to fully understand.

Gunslinger1925 · 2019-12-31T14:49:22+00:00

It’s essentially saying you’re a business partner. I have a feeling my marriage has devolved to that

SkierDude19 · 2019-12-31T15:19:59+00:00

Heard the same. Means you are done but she isnt ready to jettison you yet. Means she's bored and you aren't doing enough to stimulate her. F'that you might want to think about moving on.

SpacemanLost · 2019-12-31T18:21:26+00:00

And the #1 answer is.... "I'm having an affair"

Seriously.

That exact wording is frequently spoken by someone who is getting massive hits of dopamine in the brain from boinking someone other than you.

el_goofy_goober · 2019-12-31T19:27:02+00:00

Depending on what you expect out of people it can be a good thing... it’s like your immediate family, you love them but you’re not in love with them. Just think about that

mrradical43 · 2020-01-23T21:34:51+00:00

you are like a brother to me. i no longer want to fuck u.

earl_had_to_die · 2019-12-31T05:28:41+00:00

It means that she admires, appreciates, and cares for you but that she isn’t feeling sexually attracted to you in the way that she really wants to be.

MilanVanDijk · 2020-01-01T02:27:06+00:00

She's trying to say she hates you man. That sh*t hurts😔

JayKomis · 2020-01-07T16:52:59+00:00

My marriage ended with when this phrase was uttered. Some guys say she hates you or is sleeping with someone else, and while that may very well be true, it was far from the truth in my marriage. I am divorced, but after a lot of personal reflection I came to realize that in my particular situation, I was not very desirable. My career had stalled. I didn’t have a lot of direction. My personal identity was more “her and me” instead of “me.” Basically I was dependent on her. That is extremely unattractive to women.

While I wish my marriage hadn’t ended, it was the best thing that happened to me. I no longer have a spouse who doubles as a mother, which forced me to be an independent person. I finally pursue my own interests without wondering if it’s something that she would enjoy to do with me.

She had her own problems that caused the marriage to dissolve, but this is a sub for men. I won’t get into her half, but without a doubt she fell out of love with me because she didn’t see me as a partner anymore.

ciphrr · 2019-12-31T04:41:03+00:00

My wife said the same thing to me. She claims she meant nothing by it but I think she was serious.

Title	Get this!
Author	LandOnMyFeet
Upvotes	7
Comments	12
Date	December 31, 2019 3:34 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/Divorce_Men
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