How Can I Help You?

courtofpublic · 2018-12-07T12:56:47+00:00

I think sitting in court and being able to listen in on proceedings, and the reactions of judged and lawyers, can give us a baseline for acting appropriately, and tune us in to how questions should be posed and answered for maximum efficiency. Specific examples.

I think a book that has a case TL;DR on the left page, and the Judge's decision/court findings on the right - something men can study side-by-side in terms of what really matters.

DivorcedRedditUser · 2018-12-08T17:47:42+00:00

My biggest frustration right now is the division of visitation time. Specifically, my kids dentist is not open during my visitations. The ex won't call and make/change appointments, so I make them and plan on taking the kids myself, regardless whether it is my visitation day or not.

Next week, the school/daycare that I would pick my kids up early from in order to get to the dentist, informed me they would call the police if I tried to pick up.

I would be abducting (a felony, correct?) my own children for trying to take them to a dentist appointment that the ex has made no effort (in 6 months since it was scheduled) to take the kids to, or reschedule for a time more convenient for her.

Yes, I can document all this, and at some later date, take it to court... but in the mean time the kids miss the dentist appointment, my insurance that would cover their visit, resets at the start of the year, and I still don't know when the ex will take them to the dentist, or if she will even tell me when she does.

I've also realized that during my ex's visitation days, her new boyfriend can swing by and pick the kids up from school at any time he feels like it.

There needs to be a redefinition of what is fair, with respect to fathers rights. Yes, there are cases where the chance of a father abducting the kids and fleeing the state exists. But there is nothing on record (or even accused from my ex) that would suggest that I would take my kids in that manner. I'm effectively being punished for what some father (not even necessarily me), 'might' do, and in this case the kids suffer as well...

Hadashi_blacksky · 2018-12-09T14:55:20+00:00

Would you like to help support people on the new divorce channel I've created on the Men's Human Rights Discord? https://discord.gg/gCZTH22

Title	How Can I Help You?
Author	MNCPA
Upvotes	2
Comments	9
Date	December 7, 2018 5:28 AM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/Divorce_Men
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