How do divorce judges view false accusations

jimsmythee · 2024-10-17T20:17:00+00:00

It’s up the discretion of the presiding judge.

Some judges will not take any evidence without verifiable proof from police or courts. Some judges will take the mother’s statements as gospel.

Sea_Emu_4259 · 2024-10-17T19:13:17+00:00

False allegation are textbook silver bullet method & used as leverage in divorce to get more out of you: money & child custody. more details here
Exampe: If you're accused of a pedro####, the other parent may request that your parental rights be suspended or restricted until the allegations are resolved

Comfortable-Angle660 · 2024-10-17T19:01:36+00:00

Unless you get an exceptional judge, most likely nothing will be done.

Curiousf00l · 2024-10-17T16:42:01+00:00

I think it probably depends on the state. I got divorced in Arizona a while back, and my ex got a restraining order against me for absolutely no reason, hired a private detective, who only found that I made an unsafe lane change, and tried to keep my children from me at every turn. I had to have court supervised visitation with my four young children for a couple of months and each of my kids were interviewed by the court, and they determine that their mom‘s allegations had absolutely no basis in fact. The judge ended up writing a 14 page decision which clearly detailed all of her shenanigans, and he explained how this behavior showed how she should not have any decision-making authority over the children. I tried my best to always show that I was trying to co-parent, and even though I thought she was crazy, that she should have equal time with our kids. The judge took special note of this when he gave me full decision making authority over the four kids.

This_Train340i · 2024-10-17T15:48:56+00:00

Judges only get mad if you point out that she's a liar and committing perjury in his courtroom. Otherwise, they ignore it.

NreoDarknight21 · 2024-10-17T15:48:13+00:00

I think you should talk to a lawyer about this but if you guys are already doing 50/50, it might not change anything

skatenox · 2024-10-17T15:43:39+00:00

My experience is they definitely do not care. It’s all procedural stuff. If it’s an auxiliary motion to the divorce filing then that’s a different ballgame.

No_Bluejay_9834 · 2024-10-17T15:04:19+00:00

Following I’m in the same boat. She’s lied quite literally about thousands of things I gave my gal nearly 1000 pages of counter evidence and a ridiculous amount of exhibits. I’m very concerned about trial with how much is at stake with the lives of 2 very young children.

Feisty-Ad-566 · 2024-10-17T16:48:57+00:00

They will ignore it. not even blink an eye sadly. No matter how crazy those allegations are and even if she ended up hurting you by them no procedure will prosecute a single mother. I think you will have to just accept it and swallow the hard pill.

Title	How do divorce judges view false accusations
Author	Less_Speaker6645
Upvotes	11
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Date	October 17, 2024 3:01 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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