My stbx wife is using my children against me. So I have 3 children with my ex wife and she has been very evil and vindictive towards me. The divorce is going to be final any day now and all of that stuff is thankfully squared away. However, she has recently been using my kids to get in my business and cause trouble. She screwed up and is now mad that I want nothing to do with her at all.

Apparently she has been asking my kids to tell her stuff that I say to them to her and then uses it against me. This is a big issue, because she manipulates them and then confronts me about it later only to look stupid because what she saye to me is the opposite of what I tell them. The stuff I say is actually encouraging words of wisdom which she doesn't like just because it comes from me and she's a jealous bitch that wants me to fail but my life has been so much better without her.

So the last time she did this today, I decided to never speak with her again and to only text her moving forward. She then decided blocked me and plans to use our 3 young children to communicate pick ups and drop offs (they have phones), the oldest is 10 so I don't think this will work. Crazy thing is, I've been helping her broke ass financially but now that she's this immature and evil, I think I will cut her off for good. She was abusive in everyway against me during the marriage and I have it all on video, so if we go to court shes done. I also know that shes trying to alienate me from my kids. Now that I know one of my kids are running their mouths, I now dont trust talking freely around this kid, but at the same time, I dont believe the lies my ex tells as shes as master manipulator. Any suggestions on how to handle this fellas?