Can anyone advise me on how to manage child handovers with my ex? We are in the middle of custody proceedings I spent so long having to see my child in a contact centre, I finally got free of that but now I have to come into contact with my ex. Which obviously brings up a lot of feelings but that's not the issue the issue is at a recent handover she requested me to do something (not relevant to our child at all) I simply said no to her request, she then tried to press the matter to which I responded with I'm only going to communicate with you about matters relating to our child. I then informed her of some child related stuff, told my child I love them, said goodbye and stated I will update you further about our time together today on the co-parenting app, that was it, no raised voices, no swearing, nothing, plenty of distance between us.

I then recieved messages from her on the app completely twisting things. Thankfully I have it all recorded and know I've done and said nothing wrong but how do I manage this going forward I'm worried she's going to try and keep up this narrative at each handover and then use that as a basis to restrict me from my child again, I'm just sick of everything being beyond twisted and it doesn't matter what I say or do or don't say or do everything is twisted or just straight up lied about.