How much disclosure request can my ex request. If you have provided, request after request after request. Her lawyer is basically doing a forensic audit at this point and trying to trace where did this $1000 , what was this account used for etc. I am totally pushing back saying enough is enough .

My lawyers keep saying provide as much as you can. I'm like why..its irrelevant..all assets are listed and shes just fishing for shit and we are making no progress at point. ( I think in going to change counsel , they seem to have no strategy on defending me , just what the law states)

Mind you there equity in the home and There are hundreds of thousands at stake and this seems to be her only focus is trying to trace 1000 here and there. I dont wan to go there with her because its irrelevant.

At this point I think I am just going to request a court date and stop supporting these request. I am 20 months in my divorce and it seems like this is just going to be drawn out unless I say fuck you.

Go to court and tell the whole story. Do the courts care about the impact of her affair?

Can Audio recordings be submitted as evidence to prove she used family funds to fund her affair ?

I came to find out that my wife has a affair with my oldest sons best friends dad. So my 21 yr old son is totally in shell shock. He doesn't talk to that friend anymore and I can see he is struggling

I have to emotional support him thru this and he is drinking heavily because of his mothers actions. Cant all these items be used in court to highlight her damage to the kids and how I have help emotional support the kids. Thus ..no spousal support since I am forced to sell the home and move kids.

In aware the courts dont care the reason for the marriage breakdown, but how does this kind of stuff weigh in when it comes to support?

She is going to get money from the split of the assets (like 300k) but I'm saying fuck you to spousal support (she works but I earn more than her)

Has anyone went to court and used how the negative impact of her affair has effective the children who I am caring for .(kids stayed with me) .

The recklessness of her actions and the effort I am doing to make sure my children are emotional ok. ( my kids stayed with me after they found out about her affair)

I think I have a good case to highlight no support if i go to court.

I think my lawyers are just milking me at this point.

Plan is to get a female lawyer to defend me in court Since she has the affair, left and I have the kids living with me.

Advice ??