Well guys I pulled the trigger today. I wasn't going to, was going to wait for a good day and time. But one last thing happened and so I just told her flat out.

Shr cried, we talked, I'm boxing up things this weekend. Im were both 42, 3 kids in high school. Honestly our damage goes back a decade. This was year 21 and at least the last 3 I don't know why we've even stayed this long.

Anyways, been a long time lurker and wanted to share. Looking forward to being alone instead of terminally lonely.