married young with one child, need to leave this toxic relationship. The toll these long couple years have had on my physcial and mental health is not worth it. I feel like a failure as a father because I feel like giving up. I just want to disappear and start over. BUT I also want to try for sole custody. Wife withholds the kid from me even while married, I can't imagine how much more she would do this while divorced. Vindictive miserable person who would weponize a child. It's my fault I'm in this, I take responsibility. I really just need someone to talk to, anyone?