My wife and I have been married for almost 18 years with 2 great kids a 10 year old boy and a 5 year old girl. The other day she told me that she does not love me like a wife should love a husband. I know a lot of it is my fault because I never did listen to her, I just heard her. A year ago or so she did want to go and see a marriage counselor but I once again I did not listen to her and I let it go into one ear and out of the other. Now it is to a point where she does not want me to stay at the house or anything so I am typing this from a hotel room. I have told her I would do anything to make it up to her. Go to counseling by my self, go as a couple. Move out of the house that she does not like, move to a smaller town and get away from the city life but nothing is working. She keeps telling me that her mind is made up and nothing I can say or do will help the matter at this time. I have matured so much over the past month on my thinking. On how I should have been treating her this hole time, how I should have listened to her from the beginning on all the warning signs. How can I show her that I am willing and capable of change if she is not willing or wanting to give me a chance? I love her with all of my heart and I always will. I know that the good Lord put her on this earth just for me. Do I give her, her space and pray that she changes her mind about giving us on more chance with help of a counselor? I have cried so much the past few days that it hurts. I can’t eat, I can’t sleep all that I do is think about her and what I should have done differently. Guys I am asking for help and advise, please let me know what I need to do to help make my wife to fall back in love with me.