Not Sure What To Do

Exactly65536 · 2024-07-15T11:27:41+00:00

You are too invested into her well-being for a guy who has been replaced.

You shouldn't know the schedule of her boyfriend, parents.

"Fuck off and wait" isn't good enough. It should be "it's not my problem, do whatever you want with it".

Gattsama · 2024-07-15T10:50:55+00:00

'No' is a complete sentence. She no longer has access to your time, money, husband privileges, or duties. It may seem hard at first, but the more you say no, the easier it gets.

The real questions you need to step back and ask are:

why did I choose this person
why did I stay
why did I toleratr and excise their abuse
why do I make choices against my own best self interests

upvotersfortruth · 2024-07-15T01:20:27+00:00

You need to get out of the marriage mindset. Your relationship with her is transactional, you must get something for every give. Once she realizes your favors aren’t free, she’ll stop asking. Plus, how fucking emasculating is being relegated to an Uber driver while she’s getting boned by some dude who lives with his parents. She must be living in her own world to even think of asking.

Title	Not Sure What To Do
Author	ZackyAnarchyy
Upvotes	1
Comments	8
Date	July 14, 2024 7:48 PM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/Divorce_Men
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