Hey Yall,

So I used to post under another account and got locked out of it.

Basically, Im 1 year in.

We are still legally married but havent seen each other in a year.

No kids. No Assets etc.

I have noticed that regardless of the age, the race. etc there has been an almost formulaic way this stuff goes.

The AP already DV'd her and they broke up.

I have lost 100lbs, I have a new job making almost as much as I made before, stil way more than I need.

I am a new person.

I still need to lose more weight and Im slowly dating again, but I REFUSE to get into anything serious.

Some days I still feel the anger and resentment.

Some days Im just hopeful for the future.

To the guys who are significantly past the 1 year mark, whats next?