Any NY divorced dads on here? I’m worried I’m going to get bent over CS. I am a high earner by a lot of ppl standards but I also live modestly

325k for me 85k for my wife 2 kids 50/50 custody. It sounds like a lot by 1/4 of my pay reflects a bonus check I’ve hit every year but is not guaranteed.

I’ve read a lot about states formula but I’m above the 188k cap. The idea that I will give 3k (bare min) apparently it’s likely to be over that. But the idea that she can’t live off 7k a month and she would need more is horrible. I worked my ass off to get my job it’s taken many years of terrible jobs moving state to state, and now a 4 year horrible marriage coming to an end and now she gets money I’ve been working towards my whole life.

I guess the question if anyone from NY over the cap has experience?