Hello again…you may recall my recent post about my STBX getting upset because I expected her to file. I’ve offered to go ahead and file and today I started digging deep into the paperwork requirements for my state (California). It looks fairly straightforward but the asset documentation process is a bit overwhelming. As I look through those forms: - I don’t know where the title paperwork is for my vehicles.
- I don’t know some of my STBX’s credit card debt.
- I’m not sure how to figure out how much of my 401k was from before my marriage. - Same with my retirement account for my job.
- How do you divide household goods? And what do I list?

I’m sure I’ll figure it out but I just needed to spill.