I discovered my wife’s been having an affair. She is full of regret (too late) and wants me to stay with her. I have an exit plan but going ahead with making her think we are trying. This is so I can sort out my finances and blind side her when I issue the divorce. I have asked a lot of intimate questions and she feels really uncomfortable answering. I have all the information I need but I want to keep up with the questions to keep her unsettled as it rattles her. What else can I ask? I dont have any intention of reconciliation so not looking for meaningful questions. Just questions to keep her heightened. This is morally wrong which I accept but so was the affair. Any help is appreciated.