I need to hear from those of you that chose the divorce simply because there was no longer any love. Im at the stage where i just put a deposit on an apartment. regrets are starting to sink in as my wife explains the terrible mistake im making. Its getting to me. Has anyone been through this and decided to push through with the divorce anyway?

In the last 11 years of marriage i have been close to moving out but never did....Last time I felt very guilty and decided to stay and go to counseling. I always get this overwhelming sense of guilt from her and It makes me not follow through. then i stay and feel resentful.

This time, i actually made it to the step of putting a deposit on the apt. shits getting real. And of course, there is more regret or guilt.

If you wanna know, there was no infidelity. And no, I'm not leaving my FAT slob wife for a younger girl. my wife is VERY attractive and looks better then most girls ten years younger. . I just haven't been in love for years and counseling isnt doing it for me. I've accepted that i am no longer committed to this at all.