Guys part of the recovery process and eventually moving on is designing a new life. What roadmaps can you think off moving forward? I ask this because I am a bit lost of what should I target. My thought process is, okay, my envisioned life is not going to happen, meaning prior to Divorce I was planning to move outer/further into the suburbs of the city i live in and get a family house, but the family was broken and I only have the kids 50/50 of the time. I rent now, but hate my current location as it isn’t neither family friendly, nor prone to finding many dates, it is just a dormitory close to the city where everyone works. The dilema is, should I move closer to the city where the ladies are and thus more dating opps, or simply continue on my path and move further out, buy a house (not large one, nor the dream house honestly), still close enough to be able to coparent my kids, but where I will be completely isolated and very likely alone forever. To be honest at this point I’d rather move closer to the city while maintaining an okay distance to still be able to coparent my kids. Yet this seems that I am only moving (and also not to an ideal place) t meet more women, that seems superficial, irrational, and weak. Not sure how to solve this puzzle. Do you have any roadmaps?