We divorced 5 years ago. I am now remarried to a successful and amazing wife. life has been great... I look the best I ever looked, built myself back up from dust.... but my ex won't leave me alone in court,

I am an amazing dad to our kid. he's only 7. however my ex keep filing things in court over really trivial shit.... she stalks me like a mother fucker. she stalk my wife... she is obsessed with my life.

Her lawyer today, sent me a discovery, of all places I have traveled to in the last five years and with whom. like I always give my ex where I am staying and where I am traveling if I am taking our child but now, she wants to know about me lool. she wants to know what my current wife work, her job, her schedule. and she wants to change custody because apparently in 5 fucking years I gave her the first right of refusal 20 times, lool it's about 4 time a year. I don't believe it's too much. also she said I missed two of my kids events in those 5 years and didn't take our son to his soccer practice once. like what the fuck is this bullshit?

Last time she filed a contempt of court over $20 I refunded her 1 day late and the court granted her contempt. I am starting to think she paid the hearing officer (we never saw the judge) but where I live, I know people who paid judges like 20k to secure custody. I am at a loss with that bitch. is there any way to make her stop? the hearing officer keep entertaining those stupid cases and she makes more of them. in like 5 years we didn't have a single 3 moths break from the court. I am tired and exhausted.

Everyone says my ex is a psycho and she truly is but I am stuck with her ass for another 11 years? like wtf? my wife want to make a Netflix series about my ex lol. I am tired guys.... I guess I am just ranting... I am seeing my lawyer again Monday, my previous lawyer got burned out of those stupid cases, our last court attendance the hearing officer didn't allow my lawyer or me to say a single word and she enjoyed seeing my ex lawyer annoy me to get a reaction out of me and mocking me.

This time around I want to see the judge, it's a man and I have hope. idk what else to do. any chance for me to get a restraining order against her for harassment or stop her from going to court?