I've moved to my wife's home country and it just hasn't worked for either of us. She's saying it's better for our kids, which it might be potentially from a lifestyle view, but in terms of work, homes etc our prospects are beyond bleak.

For example I've been trying for months to find work and came close on a couple of occasions but we live in a country that very purposely favours young people being employed to the extent that that government provides funding to help hire them so that is going against me constantly.

We've discussed moving back but I've been nailed with multiple incredibly unreasonable demands including the threat that she'll never ever be happy again and that I should just live with this.

Only thing keeping me here right now is my 2 young children (4 and 7) and knowing that any decision will ultimately mean I need to leave them here.

With the multiple demands I've been given including the promise of "I might be angry about this forever" I'm absolutely at my wit's end.

I feel so lost right now. It's a horrible situation compounded with the fact she 100% doesn't want to come back to my country again even though homes, jobs etc would be very much within reach. I've basically felt like I've wasted a year for nothing other than trying to please her and just having it shoved in my face with an increasingly large list of demands for moving back to country that I'd never be able to do to get satisfaction. I feel like I'm being setup to fail constantly.

Without kids this is an easy sort but now I feel like I'm being held in the dark at the whim if someone's mood.