I got the opportunity to confront her and the AP together, it inevitably had to happen in front of my teens (13/12) So I was cool, calm and collected. It gave me great satisfaction to sit there on a chair, inside the apartment I paid for and scolding them like they were my fuckin children! Of course they stood there and took it because they were gonna be the “bigger person” they think they are and “think about the kids” lmfao yeah they think about the kids while they fuck in the room and kids sleep in living room on an air matresses … ok… gtfoh.

Anyhow, after I said what I had to say, I said im walking away and removing myself from this situation and going no contact until the legal system shakes this out whatever that may be, that doesnt mean im walking away from kids or abandoning, courts decide custody, yal wanna play house, then play but this house of cards is not a good look.

Im on day 5 no contact, been working out, dialing in sleep, nutrition, talk to my boys daily, remind them its all going to be ok and getting myself together, show up to their events (football team practices)

I prepared the boys, talked told them what would happen, to see it as a temporary deployment, to see whats happening behind the scenes with their own eyes and that they were going to witness Dad standing up for himself then rising like the motherfuckin Lion that he is because Daddy is done with Mommy and AP’s bullshit and im done protecting their mothers image, they said, we know dad, we got you!

After I said everything I had to say, I gracefully got up from chair walked towards my kids, AP visibly got the fuck out of my way, she stood there with an air of fear and arrogance that I recognize after 15 years, I said gotta piss, went into their bathroom, pissed all over, got out, I said since yal like to rush, happy parenting, hugged my boys turned around quietly shut door and left straight to the gym!

I wrote this quick it was much more gratifying and many more calm daggers were said, it was my closure. Im free, met with divorce lawyer Friday, lets finish this!!!