Look, at this point it's a beaten down smooshed horse. But the family courts, family laws, and societal pressure (me2) favor women at nearly every turn. At some point in the future men need to stand firm and fight for their rights too. We've grown complacent and allowed our own arrogance to blind us from the machinations of those pushing gynocentric ideals under our noses.
My dream is one day men have their moment and recieved equal and fair treatment under the law. Right now we are the abandoned minority.
Those that think I'm spewing misogynistic ideas has no idea of the unfair unjust pain that men are placed into by uncaring, self centered whamen. At some point in time, the laws passed in the long past, were for a reason and I will be the first to concede that men misbehaved in the past just as much as women do today. The problem is women have turned the laws into a weapon to favor them.
We need unbiased or better laws. We need to bring back at fault laws, we need to get the government out of wage garnishments for child support. We need unbiased assessors during court battles. We need limits on the amount of motions the losing side can claim... but probably never going to change, the courts and attorneys LOVE the $$$
I'll settle for at fault at least
[+]forgetSJW1 points [recovered] (3 children) | Copy Link
Trust me I know. I got sole custody of my child, wife got nothing in the divorce, and she is to pay me child support. My ex wife would file all kinds of crazy stuff and nothing would stick. You just have to lean to play the game better then they are.
[+]SweatySpecialist1 points [recovered] (2 children) | Copy Link
I'd like to know what jurisdiction this is, and what the circumstances are. I've generally only seen this in cases where the woman has a clear documented history (and current) abuse, substance use, or other disqualifying feature. In cases where both parents are on a similar footing I've not seen many cases where the father prevails. But good on you, I wish it was the case more often.
[+]forgetSJW1 points [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link
This was in VA. I was the only income, the mother was playing that I was abusive, and I proved that if the child lived with her, she would cause a problem in my ability to maintain a relationship with my child. This was back in 05.
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You cant argue it isnt getting better. Single fathers are better positioned now than at any time in the last 100 years.
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[+]Narcsurvivor7142 points [recovered] (2 children) | Copy Link
I would just advise that men dont get married and dont have children.
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[+]Narcsurvivor7141 points [recovered] (4 children) | Copy Link
What state?
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