My wife and I have been separated almost 3 months. Nothing filed. I’m buying a house because she’s insistent on it and that I won’t be coming home soon. I still get mail at the marital house as I’m crashing with family right now and haven’t legally changed this. She saw a letter relating to the home purchase. Thinks I’m hiding money. I’m not, I work in the bank system, know all the laws and spoke to my lawyer first. She asked me to talk about it then just kept saying “we need our lawyers for this”. She’s made up her mind and won’t talk. It was kind of a breaking point for me. The person I married isn’t here anymore. She was the kindest, sweetest human ever until a few months ago. I just don’t know her anymore.