Well she finally filed

AMATOLMAN · 2024-07-16T07:26:40+00:00

I’m sorry about your divorce. It’s been almost two years now. She filed last year but only started moving the case forward in the past few months. I often find myself thinking about what could have been. I’ve been dating, and while it’s not the same, it does feel good to be wanted again. My ex isn’t contentious, but I’ve had to train myself to stop calling her. She’ll call me if she needs something, but she has no interest in me. We have kids, which adds another layer of complexity. I’m 51, and the women I’ve dated are younger and have kids of their own. Unfortunately, my kids aren’t a priority to them, so it feels like I’m jumping from one difficult situation to another. Oh well.

CommercialConcern828 · 2024-07-14T10:09:46+00:00

Don’t worry about it bro.

Boy does it get better.

Hit the gym, work on your money and also your mind.

The Unplugged Alpha by Rich Cooper
Rational Male Series by Rollo Tomassi

Do the above 3 and you will be laughing inside of 2 years with a PYT to boot.

All the best.

Strict-Front-2375 · 2024-07-13T17:55:20+00:00

Perfectly normal. Was the same for me, she left and took almost 18 months to file. We hadn't spoken in over a year when she finally did file, so it's not like I had any hope at that point, but still stung when the sherriff showed up.

Got better much faster than the sepeartion though, within 2 months, was better than before

Independent_Owlz · 2024-07-12T22:27:59+00:00

Also in NC. 17 months divorced. 28 months since separation.

Still physically depressed. Hang in there bro.

Title	Well she finally filed
Author	Chris_Chilled
Upvotes	8
Comments	4
Date	July 12, 2024 9:49 PM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/Divorce_Men
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