So we split nearly a year ago, divorced for about 7 months.. Throughout the period its been a big mix between friendly atmosphere and nasty, insulting texts filled with rage from my ex. I'm always trying to remain calm and don't bite back. We got divorced simply because I got fed up, with the cheating, and neglect, not neglect over just me/us but evert aspect of our life. The children live full time with me due to health reasons, custody is still 50/50 and she can see them whenever she wants (as long as we can come over that is).

Yet I still get aggressive texts, everything from what a piece of shit I am, to I am keeping the kids from her, to well you can probably guess, everything under the sky. She's even a few times come over to bang on the door, freaking everyone out..

I mean, is this to be expected?? I thought I was dealing with an adult but it most the time feel like not so much..