Do you really mean it? Our (39F,48M) divorce is almost finalized.. but I want to continue fighting for our marriage, but I don’t know If I should keep letting him know that I am here if he ever chooses to reconcile or if I should just move on. We have no kids. Our marriage was not easy, but I adored this man..

He thinks I am a serial cheater, I never did. Not in the year we broke up while dating, not in marriage nor would I have ever done that to him.. Trust was broken due to our early breakup.. he was upset and never truly forgave me for leaving… that was three years ago. I moved to a new city, he came back to me and we started dating again, got married within 8 months and things got hard.. Silent treatment, dismissiveness, anger outbursts, white lies… He started making things up and seeings things and creating his own stories in his head which led to him misinterpreting things.. (it was totally weird) saying I was cheating ALL the time. I got more anxious and insecure and demanding… I asked then why marry me if you believed I was a cheater…. he said he thought I’d change 😳😳😳.

Should I just leave him alone? I don’t ever plan to remarry or be in a romantic relationship again because I do not plan to break my vow despite him leaving.. I still wear my ring to remind me of my commitment and to pray for us….. I’m also not wanting him back out of fear of being alone because I know I’ll be okay..