checks notes men have to pay on the first date. How dare they expect you to split the check?

country2poplarbeef · 2024-01-07T19:34:04+00:00

This is why I don't take on the role of breadwinner or pick up the check or any of that stuff that's usually saddled on men anymore. Does mean I don't get laid, but so be it. Mooching is kinda a mood killer anyways.

Mycroft033 · 2024-01-07T20:33:10+00:00

Blatantmisogyny is kinda low hanging fruit at this point

aeon314159 · 2024-01-08T02:39:48+00:00

Regardless of who pays for what, enthusiastic mutual informed consent is the minimum standard, so anything outside of that is just distraction and noise.

If you want to navigate engagement by means of normative gender roles and rules, well, you do you, boo. Let me know how that works out for you, or not.

The rest of us will choose actual communication and needs-based reciprocal partnership. Why settle for less?

usernameforreddit001 · 2024-01-07T20:02:26+00:00

It was there when initially replying, but now gone. 🤡🤡.

I never stated what happened. Or shared that I know what happened. Hence the question 🤦‍♀️

You answered after complaining and going on about how ur offended by ppl asking u questions.

I even asked u other questions unrelated to this thing ur hung up on. Yet u chose to ignore that.

It wasn’t clear , ur statement of not raping one … if it was based on the verbal consent component alone in isolation . Or the other parts u were asked of too . Considering everything else u mentioned with trying to get proof. That’s it.

Don’t tell me to keep that energy when u don’t even know what I’m meaning.

hylander4 · 2024-01-10T20:38:10+00:00

This is not misandry.

Title	checks notes men have to pay on the first date. How dare they expect you to split the check?
Author	Rod_Stiffwood
Upvotes	36
Comments	17
Date	January 7, 2024 6:56 PM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/EverydayMisandry
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