Dad being red pilled

Q-9 · 2025-09-25T20:19:09+00:00

I grew up with sexist father and extended family. Never found way to make any of them to respect me or see me having any value, since I'm a woman. As an adult I have no connection to them for a decade now.

One thing that might give a stop to your dad, if he cares about you, is to always ask: is that what you think of me? When he's talking shit about women in general. If he generalises women, it includes you too.

All women are gold diggers - you really think that about me?

FitnessBeth · 2025-09-25T21:17:07+00:00

Honestly I don't have any tolerance for people who inherently hate me because of what I am.

You don't exist to convince hateful, gullible men not to hate you.

Snuffleupagus03 · 2025-09-25T19:27:10+00:00

This is often a road built by isolation and the internet. The algorithm drives people down a dangerous road.

I feel like influencers are the way to counter this path. Maybe it’s just wishful thinking on my part.

But I always suggest people share clips of realspeechprof. He has lots of short form videos that are quick and simple take downs of redpill ideas.

wildgift · 2025-10-01T09:37:40+00:00

I recently became more misogynistic because I was reading Asian redpill subreddits and some comment threads that had a lot of that kind of discussion, and some ricecel posts. I usually avoid it, but I was trying to build arguments against some redpill fallacies. For, me, just reading it causes me to internalize some of the misogyny, and behave accordingly, like a thin-skinned guy who feels like a victim.

What I'm doing to climb out of this is listen to an audiobook of The Courage to Change, by bell hooks, and Fetishized by Kaila Yu. There's also Breaking Out of The Man Box by Tony Porter.

I have some footholds to get out of this hole because I've already read feminist and mens movement stuff. I use audiobooks because reading is more effort. Basically, I'm using different media to give me new ideas to replace the redpill misogynist ideas.

This is my situation, and doesn't match yours, but maybe it will help.

AssistTemporary8422 · 2025-09-27T18:42:28+00:00

Are there specific claims that he is making? Maybe I can give you some good counter-arguments. Like more details into how he thinks women are entitled.

273_Degrees · 2025-09-25T20:20:55+00:00

Hi I found red pill when I was 18, I’m 29 now and still feel the effects of it.

The red pill isn’t all bad, there’s definitely some truth to it but a lot of it is also toxic and filled with anger

This person on tiktok talks about it a lot and I feel like he has a good balanced approach to it, maybe you can show your dad or watch it yourself to see if you can convince him to be more objective about it

https://www.tiktok.com/@themarquetteeffect?_t=ZT-901xykMdzwc&_r=1

Title	Dad being red pilled
Author	Lovely_Doe_Unknown
Upvotes	40
Comments	29
Date	September 25, 2025 7:23 PM UTC (10 months ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/ExRedPill
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