I'm a 23M American guy currently pursuing graduate education in Europe. I can tell I'm considered quite good-looking here, and women frequently pass me a glance/laugh at my jokes. As a shorter Indian guy, however, I'm not the stereotypical tall, rich, white "Chad", so some status-obsessed women rebuff my approaches in ways designed to cause hurt (despite every effort on my part to be polite).
In a way, I'm glad these people identify themselves so readily; I've no need for their attention, and avoid them to the extent possible. But they often talk shit to others, using language like "trauma" or "sexual harassment" to describe a simple hello from a "low-status man." This year in class, one such pissed-off girl (let's call her S) reached out to many girls to whom I'd expressed romantic interest, or vice versa (~4-5 girls in a class of ~80)---to cast doubt on my character and dampen their interest.
I've had nothing but (highly unpleasant) surface-level interactions with this person, never even asked for a date, certainly nothing to reasonably inspire such anger. Perhaps unsurprisingly, she's "dating" (read: side piece of) some finance douche bro. I've been in these situations before, and I used to avoid, ignore, and live in fear, but this just gives them free rein to malign me. I feel that I should instead confront and call out these people: how should I do it?
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