Does being involuntary single and getting rejected mess with your overall wellbeing?

5MinuteMentalFitness · 2022-04-08T22:04:49+00:00

Only if you revolve your self esteem around the validation of others.

And only if a big part of your psyche is family or community focused.

HGW86 · 2022-04-09T00:02:24+00:00

It most certainly does cause a complete loss of self-esteem and a loss of self-confidence. Blackpill bullshit exaggerates these feelings of inferiority and often keeps men in that headspace.

To make things worse, a mass majority of advice these men get is either patronizing or just outright dismissive, which makes the problem a lot worse.

You can browse r/IncelExit and read some of the posts there and get a good idea what goes on in their heads, since that sub shows a lot of men asking for help rather than straight up pushing blackpill garbage.

Naus1987 · 2022-04-09T10:47:09+00:00

It's possible. Probably true.

I would say the best counter would be to surround yourself with friends, that way you're constantly surrounded by good vibes!

A relationship can be a big commitment. So people would generally be hesitant to accept an offer, but there's no pressure for friendship.

dottywine · 2022-04-17T03:18:50+00:00

Yes. We are social creatures so feeling like you cannot have your social emotional needs met will make you feel bad about yourself. It requires a lot of self-care so you don't ooze that onto others.

odd_cloud · 2022-04-21T13:46:51+00:00

I think so. Being excluded from one of the main spheres of life is difficult. I think it feels similar to when you cannot obtain the job you want.

sunkized · 2022-05-07T23:08:31+00:00

I think so. My self esteem is destroyed from never being in a relationship at 31

Title	Does being involuntary single and getting rejected mess with your overall wellbeing?
Author	spankyourkopita
Upvotes	14
Comments	8
Date	April 8, 2022 7:46 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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